I just think that guilt trips are the worst way of communication. Granted, you can get things accomplished a lot of times with guilt, but really truly it just makes the giver and taker feel like crap. I intend to make a very conscious effort to not use guilt and avoid people who do.
Just come out and say what your thinking, dammit. Shock me! Today I really need it.
Monday, February 19, 2007
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I don't think it makes the giver feel like crap at all. I think it makes the giver happy that they got what they wanted even if your heart wasn't in the right place.
My sister and I joked that my mom shold have a shirt that read "Guilt is a great motivator" on the front and "bow to the master" on the back.
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